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BIRTHDAYS
AFTER
years of research, this is the result of what the Certainly
the matter of birthdays and the observance of them is not the most important
“doctrinal” question, but yet, it is needful that we clear up in print the
questions regarding the observances of birthdays. As you may already well
know, the Church has never really taught that Christians never should observe
birthdays. Unless we all did so, we would never in reality know our ages.
Each one of us has taken note of the date that we are born and the fact that
we are another year older on a certain date of the year shows that. The
blessing to us is that the Bible in itself helps to keep track of the ages of
the patriarchs and of the exact number of years the kings of The
True Biblical Evidence
Our
teaching has always been based upon a few biblical examples. First off, we
know, for example, that the chief baker had lost his own life on the occasion
of Pharaoh’s birthday (Genesis 40). The decapitation of John the Baptist also
occurred on the celebration of a birthday of a secular ruler—Herod Agrippa II
(Matthew 14:6-10). Further,
we find that there is the example of a probable birthday celebration in the
book of Job. In Job 1:4, we find that it reveals that “His (Job’s) sons used
to go and hold a feast in the house of each on his day…” This same Hebrew
expression that is translated “his day” is equaled with Job’s birthday in
chapter 3. “After this Job opened his mouth, and cursed the day of his birth
(Hebrew: his day)…Let the day perish where I was born…”—Job 3:1, 3. Job
further said in connection with his own son’s festivities that is described
in chapter 1: “…It may be that my sons have sinned…”—Job 1:5, but the
drunkenness, promiscuity, or other immortal events that may possibly have
taken place on the occasion were. Job’s offering to God was in the form of a
“just in case” insurance policy (see v.5). Apart
from these examples, however, there is yet a possible third example in
Ecclesiastes about the day of death as being better than one’s birth (Eccl.
7:1), yet the Bible is otherwise silent on this subject. As we look into this
topic, we see that the Bible is not a complete and specific regulating authority
on this matter and on every little behavior of the person as we must
sometimes decide for ourselves what is important to live by and what is
important for us to do in our own personal lives. For the mind of God becomes
clearer to us, however as we search out the Word of God.
Conclusion from Other Scriptures
The very
exact date of the birth of Christ is simply not revealed. God apparently did
not intend for us to know the time or did not even intend for us to celebrate
his birth, as he knew the pagans were fully accustomed to do. However, on the
other side of this question, the birth of Christ does indeed occupy a fairly
important segment of scripture—several long chapters (especially in Luke) are
devoted to the manner of and circumstances that surround the birth of Jesus.
It would be very erroneous to even imply that there was anything evil or even
remotely sinful about the birthday of Jesus Christ. It was a very joyful and
blessed event for all of mankind. But, God ordained that the date of his
death should be observed—not the date of his birth (1 Cor. 11:24-26; John
13:14-17). Thus showing to us that it is more relevant that we should observe
the death of the Savior and what the death done for the human family. Thus, we
have evidence therefore that the Bible does not give us a clear-cut picture,
“Thus saith the lord,” on the question of any birthdays. Sometimes, God
expects for us to exercise a degree of judgment and common sense when we are
dealing with various situations—based, of course, upon biblical principles. The fact
that unfortunate events had taken place on two (or perhaps three) birthday
celebrations, as is recorded within the Bible does not of itself imply or
even hint to us that such observances are wrong. The Apostle Paul has shown
to us that even sacred observances of the Passover was
subject to abuse (1 Corinthian 11). Paul showed us how there were certain
people who were getting drunk during the Passover observance. This does not,
however, show to us that observing the Passover is wrong, but it is showing
to us that partaking of alcohol should be done in moderation and that it is
also good to have alcohol—but to avoid drunkenness. There is a positive way
to do things and there are negative ways to do things. This includes what we
do in regards to even the holy days. The fact
is still remaining that there is no command anywhere in the Bible to abstain
or to observe birthdays. The examples that we have provided, however, should
warn us that abuse on anything is possible and that we should avoid abusing
no matter what. The
principles of God’s indicate to us that there needs to be balance and
moderation in all things—meaning that all things that are right and good
(Phil. 4:5). Like any party, a birthday observance can become a time for
drunkenness-and or other moral infractions that should be avoided at all
costs. Now,
let’s get down to specifics on some things. Should the children of members go
to birthday parties? This is a question that has long been asked within the Now,
let’s say that your boss at work is having a birthday and there is a party
being thrown in his honor. Is it wise not to contribute or to even show honor
by not attending? The opinion of the Church in this matter is that you should
honor your boss and honor him by chipping in. After all, he is the one who
pays your salary and besides, we should “honor to whom honor; custom to whom
custom” is the principle (Romans 13). Therefore, in such a case, attending an
office party or one at the boss’ home is permissible. This situation would
not come up but only once a year, it at all. Now, what
about holding birthday celebrations for ourselves or for our children? Is
this permissible? We would not want to advise this. Why should we make such
an annual event selfishly oriented and an ego-trip of someone’s birthday by
holding a big celebration and virtually “commanding” people in the Church
neighborhood to be there with a gift at such-and-such a time and place? In
the Church, as large as ours is, every day of the year is always someone’s
birthday. We can therefore exhaust all of our resources buying gifts for each
other—especially if we printed all the members
birthdays in the Church News. What
about if we want to wish someone happy birthday? No! This is not wrong at
all. We wish that every day of the year could be happy for people. We of
course do this as a gesture for people to have a happy birthday and a happy
new year in their own lives. How about
gift giving? If it is necessary that we should give gifts at a birthday party
on a rare occasion, then it would not be right to go empty handed without a
gift. Just like for most of us, we usually choose to give someone gifts at
the Feast of Tabernacles for example or at Thanksgiving. We do this in a way
to say thanks for what has been done for us. We need to be cautious about
going and expecting to receive, rather than going and giving.
Important Principles from the
Scriptures
If a
member is going to have a big birthday party, there is no evidence that he
has sinned at all. Notice
some important scriptures that bear on this subject. Romans 14:1-13 tells us
that as for the man who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not for disputes
over opinions. One believes that he might eat anything (edible), while the
weak man eats only vegetables. Let not him who eats despise the one who has
abstained, and let the one who has abstained not pass judgment on him that
has eaten; for God is the one who welcomes him. Therefore, this shows us that
God welcomes all of us and that we should not look down upon another because
they have had a birthday party. Remember, we are all at a certain maturity
level in the Church. Read what
v.5 says to us: “Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It
is before his own master that he stands or fails. And he will be upheld, for
the master is able to make him stand.” Therefore, if a brother in the Church
should decide to have some sort of celebration, the rest of us should never
judge nor condemn him for having such. His relationship to God is a vertical
one—not a lateral one that is filtered through the rest of the membership. V. 17 tells us further that “For the Kingdom of God is not meat
and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit.” This is
a key passage in the Bible that we all need to mark and never should we
forget it! The Concluding
here, we want to look at vs. 12, 13, and 19: “So each of us shall give
account of himself to God. Then let us no more pass judgment on one another,
but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a
brother…Let us then pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.” Therefore, let us keep in mind that we
should all be working together and if one has a birthday party, then we just
continue to love him and to fellowship him and remember that it is up to the
individual how they observe their birthday. Birthdays do remind us how old we
are and they keep us in the reminder of the fact that we are entering a new
year and a new milestone in life. For
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of God (Sabbath Day) and there, you can download or request any of
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